Here are a few suggestions for who you can reach out to when seeking to leave a gay lifestyle and follow Jesus:
- A Biblically Faithful Pastor:
• Begin with a pastor at a local, Bible-teaching church. An evangelical pastor can walk with you through Scripture, prayer, and mentorship, offering spiritual guidance rooted in God’s Word.
• Many pastors have counseled people through similar journeys and can connect you with supportive groups or individuals in the church.
• Contact the Daren, Nate, or Gracie who themselves have walked out of homosexuality and are part of the Agape Staff and are faithful to Jesus and can provide you support. - Christian Counselors or Therapists Affiliated with The Alliance:
• Look for counselors who understand the Christian worldview and are aligned with The Alliance for Therapeutic Choice and Scientific Integrity (often associated with the Journal of Human Sexuality).
• These counselors can help address the emotional struggles and past wounds that sometimes contribute to same-sex desires, while also respecting your faith convictions. Therapy by itself does not transform your heart, but it can be a helpful tool when combined with prayer and pastoral discipleship. - Ex-LGBT or “Former Homosexual” Ministries and Networks:
• Ministries such as Restored Hope Network or Voice of the Voiceless connect you with men and women who have come out of gay lifestyles to follow Jesus. Through their events and online resources, you can find testimonies and supportive mentoring relationships.
• These organizations typically offer referrals to local support groups, prayer groups, and biblically based recovery programs. - Small Groups or Discipleship Ministries at Church:
• Many churches host discipleship groups or Bible studies that provide accountability, friendships, and prayer support. Being part of a close-knit group that genuinely cares for you and upholds biblical truth can be essential.
• Honest relationships within the church family can encourage you when you face temptations or doubt. - Prayerful, Trusted Friends and Mentors:
• Seek out spiritually mature friends who love Jesus, stand by biblical convictions, and will lift you up in prayer.
• Scripture reminds us to “bear one another’s burdens” (Galatians 6:2). Having godly companions who regularly check in and pray for you can help you persevere.
In the end, the most important thing is walking closely with Jesus in a faithful community. Combine pastoral support, counseling (if needed), and fellowship with a consistent habit of prayer, Scripture meditation, and worship. Through His Word and Spirit, Christ renews the mind and heart. You are not alone—even when the journey feels challenging, remember that genuine help is available from believers who will walk beside you, encourage you, and remind you of the hope we have in the Lord.